yes I know you are a little confused why I am not commenting on the scenario of where I happened to be for the time of a few days : there are many reasons to it. I have seen in India as well sex being abused as a weaponry by different strata of life vis a vis different interests group or power group etc may be there are many more reasons to keep me silent on this topic but I have certain bio logical reasons as well as I am horribly read at bio logy as well.