Thursday, June 24, 2010

THORNY MAGNOLIAS..June.24.10.9.30.PM

I was reading a research presentation of loneliness

the gist which the author depicted is as follows:-

the perception quotient and quality of relationship i.e the quotient of proximity of relationship decides how far one can be affected by this vicious malaise of modern times

socialite is not at all a remedy

the relationship closeness on benevolence cardinals is the key to success.

well!!!
its a part of psychology
but psychiatry has different conotations

when we are in our mother womb all such vacuums suffered by the monther are transferred to the child

the formative stage has a little role to play barring the extreme cases of abuse or distortions etc eg a prisoner of war etc.

but this has no escape route

we shall have to negotiate

sometimes obsessions do serve a better part to thrive
but as the very title indicates , its only a make shift alternative

is that
sufferings and more sufferings is the only way

probably yes for millions of the hearts around

psychotherapy does serve a part of solution
provided it gets continued over a real very large part of life


shapes may be many

work alcoholism, creative-ism in any form, obsessions of traveling and sports etc

but the truth is
all such activities are not cost effective
and every one can't afford on financial terms

many of the ibid alternatives are not accepted by the system ,so called the society or the groups etc etc

is there no solution at all

probably yes

but if one can change the perception by force full methods of self allusion
it's practically re-incarnation whilst in the same life span

its horrible if one can understand

but tough achievements do come at a horrible price tag

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